@oid Perhaps I owe an apology for an excessively critical post -- I can see that I was a bit too heated.
Perhaps part of the problem in this thread is trying to find terminology without agreeing on terminology -- I'm using some terms in a way that you disagree with, or might be misunderstanding to some extent, and vice versa.
I think some of the things that have been said in this thread are misleading in some ways. Message-passing along patch cables isn't a goto -- it just isn't. Gotos have been discouraged for a long time because they're messy. Overuse produces spaghetti code, and goto-heavy code is hard to debug because gotos are history-less -- there's no backtrace to see how you got into a bad place. Pd message passing keeps all the history until you reach the end of the chain. Stack traces are a characteristic of procedure/function calls -- not a characteristic of gotos.
I do see that Pd doesn't use a stack for returning data to a caller. But there have been some statements that seem to go beyond that, for instance, "without a return stack we can't actually return" -- that's true, we can't return data but execution can and does return back to an object that was previously touched.
Again, probably a lot of this is about terminology -- for example, when I used the term "procedure call," that isn't the normal way that Pd users talk about message passing, so there's a bit of "well that doesn't make sense"... but I think the behavior of Pd control objects lines up very closely with the behavior of procedure calls, and I think some of the resistance to this idea has been overstated to some extent or another. (Likewise, to suggest that you totally rejected the idea of a stack is a considerable overstatement -- which I certainly have to retract.)
So I am sorry about getting a bit punchy there -- at the same time, I'm a bit bewildered why so many things I've tried to say in this thread seem to have gotten a "well, no, that's not it" where I guess I hoped for a "hmm, that's interesting, have you considered?"
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