Its down to these 2.

If ANYONE could help me a little bit i would greatly appreciate it

Problem 1:

Using the TouchOSC PD patch gen, ( with both boxes checked )
Ill make a custom layout, use the patch gen to create a patch for PD, Open traktor try and map things, its a very simple layout, just to control decks 3 and 4.

Issue im having is no matter what i try, certin buttons i create are being assigned the same midi CC message, i thought at first this was because i was copying and pasting buttons, so i re did the layout with all new buttons, still getting the same issue.

so no matter what i do or try, my cue or cp 1 or sync will get midi cc 38 lets say,
its EXTREMLY fustrating. i have a windows laptop right now because i cant afford a mac yet. but i have an ipad =] and i want to use it.

Issue 2.

Midi feedback

so if i were to say, use a slider for the filter on traktor. and i crank it up, and then hit the " reset " button, is there a way to make the slider i just used to controlt he filter, snap back.

i know all of this stuff is possible but im new to PD, ive learned a bunch but i cannot get my head around any of this to the pint where im deperate for any kind of help there is little information about PD and touchosc it seems. =/

Setup,
Traktor Pro S4 ( does the same on traktor pro )
Windows 7 32 bit
3 gigs ram
1.6 C2D

TouchOSC
Pure Data
Midi OX

any more info you need please let me know ill attach whatever anyone needs.

1) Midi mapping problem
Touch OSC on the iPad is configured and communicating with PD on windows, yes?
Are you using mrpeach OSC objects in PD?
Did you also install Midi Yoke as well as Midi OX?
Is there another midi controller that could be overriding the midi sent from PD to Tracktor?
Are you using Midi OX to watch the midi traffic to Tracktor in realtime?

I don't use Touch OSC (using MRMR) but you mentioned that the PD patch is being generated? Can you post the patch that it's generating?

2) Midi Feedback
It sounds like you want the communication to be bidirectional, this is not as simple as midi feedback. Remember Touch OSC communicates using OSC and Tracktor accepts and sends Midi. So what you have to do is have Tracktor output the midi back to PD and have PD send the OSC to Touch OSC to update the sliders.

I would seriously consider building your PD patch by hand and not using the generator. You'll learn more that way and will be able to customize it better to your needs.